Author Archives: Dalya Massachi

Three thoughts on writing, the uncomfortable art we can’t resist

[Dalya’s Note] This guest blog post originally appeared on February 18, 2013 on nonprofit writer Katya Andresen’s LinkedIn blog.

I love and hate to write. Here are three pieces of advice based on my daily struggle with blogging, fiction and work-related writing. I share these as a student, not a master. These are lessons I re-learn every day in the creative process. Writing is that way – casting you forever in the role of novice, whether you enjoy it or not.

1. Run toward uncomfortable. If you write something that makes you want to hide or erase, keep going straight to that feeling. You’re on to something.

2. Relentlessly live in that uncomfortable place as a way of life, ignoring every excuse and criticism. This is the work of writing. You pitch a tent in that awful, uncomfortable patch of land and spend time there every day, despite the harsh conditions, the many reasons you don’t have time to be there, and that loud inner critic who keeps distracting you.

3. Go there for no other reason than your own. Write what you want to read, say what must, lay down what matters to you. Don’t edit yet; just do what compels you. This isn’t about seeking love, approval or fame. They are rarely the results of writing anyway. Remember – you’re in a tent in the wilderness, not on a stage. This is about feeding yourself.

If you do these things, you will produce a work of writing. Keep going till you feel done or are truly stuck. Show it to smart people. Listen. It will be horrible to hear anything other than it is perfect. Listen anyway. Listen some more. Take it in and turn it back into your writing. It will get better, and you’ll be ready to run back to that rocky ground where your tent awaits.

Eventually, something will emerge. It will never match what you first imagined, but it will be something you can declare good enough. If you get that far, I applaud you. It’s not easy, and yet you stayed and worked and made it so. The rest of us are clapping, because we know just how hard it is.

Just published: Do Good Well: Your Guide to Leadership, Action, and Social Innovation

“This book is the primer for social innovation.”— Muhammad Yunus, Nobel Peace Prize Laureate and Founder of Grameen Bank

Do_Good_Well-book-cover97% of Millennials say it’s important for them to engage in work that has a positive impact on the world. The message is clear: Today’s younger generations deeply value social responsibility.

They feel an obligation to “do good” and solve the problems they see everyday on the news and in their communities. Their drive to make an impact has transformed everything from the way teenagers use their spare time, to the classes college students take, to the careers that young adults pursue.

But many Millennials (and others) struggle with the application and implementation of their idealistic intentions; they want to “do good”, but are not sure how to get started, or how to strengthen and sustain their efforts once they’ve taken flight.

That’s why I contributed to the new book, DO GOOD WELL: YOUR GUIDE TO LEADERSHIP, ACTION, AND SOCIAL INNOVATION
(Jossey-Bass paperback and e-book). Already a #1 Amazon Best-Seller, DO GOOD WELL is a groundbreaking leadership guide that provides a comprehensive and concrete roadmap to making a positive and lasting impact.

I was honored to co-author the chapter entitled “What Works in Fundraising.”

Sonal Shah, First Director of the White House Office of Social Innovation and Civic Participation, calls the book a catalyst to help those who want to accelerate social change. It is the ‘go to’ reference on how citizens can make a big impact in their communities and around the world!”

Written with a fresh voice and a dash of humor, DO GOOD WELL offers students and young adults a practical and hands-on way to establish their unique brand of leadership.

The book begins with the knowledge that all impactful change starts from within. Next, it provides a 12-part framework for developing solutions that can break through any barriers to change. This process is simplified into three core principles: Do What Works, Work Together, and Make It Last. The final portion of the book gives readers the tools and step-by-step instructions they’ll need to execute their ideas and maximize their impact.

DO GOOD WELL captures the entrepreneurial and creative spirit of our time by drawing upon the experiences of today’s most talented young leaders. Incredibly versatile, the book delivers a winning combination of interdisciplinary research, case studies, personal anecdotes, practical advice, worksheets, and reflection questions. As a result, it is an ideal partner both as an individual read and in the group setting (managing businesses, nonprofits, or clubs; facilitating student affairs programs; teaching courses on entrepreneurship or service learning; running leadership workshops and trainings, etc.). DO GOOD WELL is the comprehensive must-read for anyone motivated to effect meaningful, sustainable change.

EARLY REVIEWS

“The book we’ve all been waiting for – brilliant and full of energy, this manual provides the tools and step-by-step instructions to transform anyone into a leader of social change. So hands-on and high-yield that it will never gather dust!” — Nancy Lublin, CEO of DoSomething.org

 “A practical field guide for young people wanting to change the world.”  — Nick Kristof, New York Times columnist and Co-Author of Half the Sky

 “An outstanding leadership guide that empowers young entrepreneurs to be the change and take action today. An essential companion for the classroom, boardroom, and chatroom.” — Alan Khazei, Co-Founder of City Year and Founder of Be The Change, Inc

 DO GOOD WELL is also a new organization! Learn more about it HERE.

Free Webinar on 4/4: Thank You, Thank You Very Much!

Join me, Linda Lysakowski, and GiftWorks for a free webinar: Thursday, April 4th at 12 noon PDT (3 p.m. EDT)

Before Elvis left the building, he always thanked his fans. Do you thank your donors enough? Here are a few ways you can be sure you don’t leave your donors in Heartbreak Hotel because they don’t feel appreciated:

  1. Board members can conduct a “thank-a-thon.”
  2. Clients can join in the thanking.
  3. You can beef up your thank you letters.

In this webinar, we offered plenty of ideas on how to implement these techniques. And we covered 4 additional techniques!

Recording now available.

Sample Thank You Letter.

NOTE: Webinar may surpass an hour depending on the Q&A session immediately following the presentation. 

Sign up for the event HERE.

April Fools’ Day: No Joke!

April Fools’ Day carries a serious message: The huge importance of humor in the social sector is no joke!

Humor is a great way to connect with co-workers as well as have some fun in the midst of working so hard. In the social sector we wrestle with very serious, complex, sometimes abstract issues. But even Superman and Superwoman took breaks from saving the world! Humor lets us step back, get a bit of perspective, refresh our hearts and souls, and be able to return to our tasks with a clearer head.

See what some in the nonprofit sector have to joke about:

1) Nonprofit Humor: This website claims to be the world’s only fundraising comedy site. It includes funny, fictional stories for the nonprofit world.

2) The Chronicle of Philanthropy Cartoons: If you read this newspaper, you already know about the cartoons that often get us laughing (or sighing). Many are by Mark Litzler, whose cartoons also grace the pages of “Writing to Make a Difference.”

Speaking of the humor found in my book, a few of my favorite bits are:

“The beautiful part of writing is that you don’t have to get it right the first time, unlike, say, a brain surgeon.” — Robert Cromier

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How much humor do you bring to your workplace? Does it make a difference in your working relationships? (Leave a comment below with your thoughts.)

Most people find that humor creates an easy exchange of conversation that you might not ordinarily have. But make sure the jokes are appropriate! (Check this out.)

So today, joke away and laugh it up! You may be happy with the results (or at least get in a couple more smiles).


Six Steps to Success in Collaborative Writing Projects

[Dalya’s note: Deborah Pruitt will be featured on Writing Wednesdays 4/3/13 and has written this guest blog post. She’s the author of “Group Alchemy: The Six Elements of Highly Successful Collaboration.” In addition to heading up Group Alchemy Consulting, she serves as a faculty adviser at the Western Institute for Social Research.]

 

Embarking on a collaborative writing project can be fun and interesting. You will be able to share the burden and get the benefits of different perspectives on your final product. And, as with all joint ventures, there are potential risks. Breakdowns can easily happen due to confusion, lack of agreement and differences in work styles. To keep that from happening and ensure a successful result I recommend the following six steps to success.

1)   Identify the unique pieces of the project.

Break the project into discrete segments and decide on their logical order for what you want to accomplish. This is your outline plus notes about what each segment is intended to accomplish and how it fits together with the others. Don’t be afraid to spend some time on this together – your time spent in front of the project will save you lots of revision later.

2)   Identify everyone’s strengths and specialties and take advantage of them.

Create unique assignments for each of the segments of the final work.The more clearly you break the project into discrete segments the better you can identify the key components and decide who can best meet them. For instance, you’ll be most successful if you assign a budget section to someone with that experience. Or a section that focuses on program content would be best written by someone on your team who is closely involved in that program.

3)   Agree on a project schedule and benchmarks for completion along the way.

Everyone needs to have a clearly defined plan so that all the pieces are ready at the right time. If one person needs information from another to complete their portion, you want to make sure that is clearly identified and a timeline agreed to.

4)   Assign a project coordinator.

You can think of this person like a general contractor on a building project. You need one central person to hold all the pieces together in the big picture and keep things moving along. She or he can collect materials, answer questions, provide updates and manage deadlines. She might also determine whether a meeting is needed to clear up questions or develop the ideas to keep the project moving.

5)   Assign a final editor.

Identify one or two people who will assemble all of the pieces and edit for voice, tense and general proofing. This could be the project coordinator but doesn’t need to be. Think about your strengths and choose the best editor among you for smoothing the final version into a unified and well-written piece.

6)   Disseminate the final draft to all involved for review and feedback.

Once you have a complete draft ready to go, get everyone on the project to read it as a whole piece and provide feedback. This is where the benefit of multiple people can really shine. Each one of you has a particular expertise and perspective so when you read the piece you can look for the continuity and coherence around your area throughout the piece.

At the heart of each of these steps are agreements that structure and support each person doing what is needed for the project. I will be discussing the art of strong agreements that create successful collaborative projects on the April 3 Writing Wednesdays call. Please join us! If you haven’t already signed up please do so at: http://writingtomakeadifference.com/community.